A WALK THROUGH VP/HALSOFT
A few years ago I was one of those people that said (chat-room) like it was a dirty word, and swore I would never go to a place like that. I am happy to say I was proven wrong. I have meet some wonderful people and just goes to show one can misjudge and be wrong. Also I have had to eat a few words. lol
We hear so many negative things about chat-rooms and some are possibly true, but we actually are responsible for our own actions here. There are many options to avoid things we do not like or agree with. If we are uncomfortable we can simply choose to leave the room and seek fun of our liking elsewhere. I personally try not to judge other people in the way they choose to behave, we are all human, but different in our own right. What ever a persons life style, or beliefs although we may not agree it is the choice of that person, we can leave or stay in their company. Try to remember each of us have a name, a face, and most importantly a heart. We feel emotions, love, hurt, happiness and pain.
You will meet many people in HalSoft, some in passing, some we become very close and attached to. You may even have a special person that you enjoy being with and even grow to love , "yes" you can love someone in here it's allowed *S*. However, beware the road can and will be rough, there will be people that will give you grief for what ever their reasons. It would be nice if we could all follow the (golden rule) but not all know what that rule is and if they do, they don't get the meaning. Remember what you do to others will come back at a later date and nip you in the bud. You may have to walk in their shoes one day. Old saying but wise words.
We have good experiences and bad, but the good are the ones we will remember for a life time. I have become good friends with a number of people I have met. Everyone we meet leaves something with us a smile, a hug or just a warm hello to brighten our day. Some have truly left footprints in my heart.
If I sound like I believe VP/HalSoft to be a perfect place no way ! I know the ups and downs, the deception, the false friends been there done that, but I still believe it to be a place to visit make friends and enjoy. I believe you will find the good out weighs the bad. And on that note, for those that do play games and have more names than they can remember, if you change names for goodness sake change your ID and AV.. jeeeeezzz lol.
True this is a fantasy world, but that does not give us the right to break hearts, damage others character or be cruel. We can have our dreams and fantasies without the hurt and the pain. At least I am of that opinion.
I have enjoyed my time in VP/HalSoft and I know there are many new friends yet to meet. I have learned a few lessons over the past few years, hopefully I will remember and put them to good use. And above all I hope to remember that on the other side of this screen is a real person just like myself.
Please remember, these are the ramblings and opinions of firedance_ and not meant to imply I know anymore than anyone else in this big space station called the Virtual World. Nor is it meant as gospel lol. I do hope something I have said will help us all to make this a better place to be.
To all my friends, I thank each of you for being here, for sharing my life, for all the love, laughs and hugs. A very special thank you goes out to all of you for your support during my grandsons surgeries. The prayers and love have been what has pulled us through. Big Hugs to each of you.
Thank you for taking the time to visit this page. I hope something caught your eye or touched you in some way. Happy touring in Space, have fun and enjoy. And remember
"Reach Out And Touch Someone"
The wording of this writing was done solely by Firedance
A walk
through was
originally created in May of 2002, with the help
and encouragement of two wonderful
friends CJ and Kats
Thank you both for your help and support in the creation of this page,
I hope all who visit will enjoy and take something of meaning with them.
Three Years Later
June 2005
Well Well !! (Chsamo) You always wanted to know what was up and over
these stairs.
*smiles*
Now you know my friend. Was a long walk and lots of stairs, but here we are.
Three years "MY" how time flies. It seems like only yesterday that we first gathered "On A Walk Through Vp/Halsoft." Everyone was very kind and let Firedance ramble on and on. (LOL) I spoke from the heart then, and I will keep that same principal as I speak now. I still believe for the most part what I said three years ago to be true. A lot of things have happened and there have been some painful moments, but we can't expect life to always be perfect, not even in Halsoft. Our friends get us through the bad times and they are always there for us.
Since A Walk Through was created, a number of things have come to mind. I believe one important thing not mentioned before. If there comes a time you feel you are getting close to someone, or someone is getting close to you. This is the time for complete honesty. Think about that !! if you have something you need to say to someone, please do. There is enough pain in the world, lets not put pain on our friends, people we care about.
This update will not be as long as the original Walk Through. (Everyone sighs with relief) lol My opinion hasn't changed much. I have learned a few more lessons, but that's what life is all about. I have learned in the past three years more about what the word love means, and to love unconditionally. I have learned that because you love someone doesn't mean they will love you back. I have learned to except life as it is and be grateful for the times spent with people you really and truly care about. I have learned to be grateful for everyday and never to take anything for granted.
Updated January 24th 2009
So many things have changed since this page was created, friends have come and gone for many reasons and new friends have joined us. We miss those that are not here and will hold them close in our hearts forever.
Of course! some things never change. It
never ceases to amaze me how little people know about chat rooms. Some think
they can waltz into a room, push and shove people trying to dominate a
room and when it doesn't work they then try to act as if they are the mistreated
and will use any lame excuse they can come up with to get attention. (
NEWS FLASH!!! ) the Ladies and Gentlemen who visit this room are wonderful
people, but they also know the ropes and are very capable of putting these types
of people in their place in a very nice way. For those of you who
choose to do these things know, you do STAND out in a crowed and are
easily spotted.
Anyone who wishes to join us you are welcome always. The rules here
are simple, Just be respectful of others and have a good time. Not
much in the way of excitement, but that's it folks till next time have a
great day, stay safe and please say hello when you can. Hugsss to
all.
Update Coming Soon
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Reach Out And Touch Someone
"Artist" Diana Ross
